What does it mean to be a good mom, daughter, employee... fill in the blank?
And when do you find yourself feeling bad and guilty that you're not?
Mostly likely it's when you're setting boundaries and saying no to other people.
Such as when you want to prioritize your own health, well-being and time. Which means some of the things you've been doing "in service" of others needs to go.
And because you've been taught and conditioned that your value as a woman comes from serving others, you think that means that you're not a good wife/boss/friend, etc.
This line of thinking is great for the patriarchy and bad for you. Because it keeps you overworked, underpaid, stressed and burned out.
You don't have to put yourself last in order to be a good anything.
Enough is enough.
Serving others out of guilt or obligation is actually what's preventing you from being a good ________________. Because those people are getting the tired, resentful version of you.
And so are you.
You deserve better.
I can help you set boundaries and show up for yourself and the people in your life in a way that's actually good for everyone. As your coach I can help you become a priority in your own life. Everything we'll do together is based on your Human Design so we work with your energetic make up and natural alignment, not against it.
As a coach, I have helped hundreds of clients create more magic, joy, purpose and fulfillment in their lives and I can help you do that too. Schedule a consult so we can talk about working together.
During the consult we'll talk about what you're looking for and what's missing. I'll lay out a process to help you get there. And then we'll decide if we want to move forward. Either way, you'll get info about your chart and some strategies you can implement right away.
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